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Goodwill Haul: J.Crew, Gap, Target, + More!

In my March Obsessions post, I mentioned Goodwill and the amazing finds I've had there lately. I have become a big, big fan of shopping at Goodwill, and I am someone who probably could be described as a bit of a label snob. So whether you're an avid Goodwill shopper, haven't been to one in years, or just think it's not for you, this post is to give you an idea of the sorts of things I've found at mine and why you should be paying a visit to the Goodwill in your area! At the bottom, I've also created a list of tips for anyone hoping to find great stuff at Goodwill, based on my own experiences so far. I'm quickly becoming sort of a Goodwill expert, at least according to my friends!

Details of my trip:


I was amazed to find brand new (with tags!) and like-new high-quality, name-brand stuff at many different locations. I'm fortunate enough to have three separate locations within about 5 miles from my house, so this opens up the selection of stuff available to me. In the Chicago suburbs (where I live), there are locations all over the place, so if I'm willing to drive an extra 20-30 minutes, the options are virtually endless. Everything I'm featuring here today was purchased during the weekend of March 28-30, and I went to 7 stores in total, all within a 15 mile radius of my house. Several of these items were purchased during a 20% off sale.

The Goods:



Look at all this stuff!



For Me:
1. Navy skirt (DIYed to turn into a pencil skirt from an ankle-length) | $3.99
2. Dee&Ray peplum top | $2.39
3. Gap red gingham button-down | $3.19
4. American Eagle green striped button-down | $3.19
*5. Target white long-sleeved tee | $2.39
6. Target yellow cardigan | $4.99
*7. Target red girls skirt | $ 2.99
*8. Target black girls skirt | $2.99
9. Old Navy polka dot cardigan | $3.99
10. Target patterned shorts | $3.99
11. Gap plaid button-down | $3.99
12. J.Crew pink striped top | $3.19
Not pictured: Green H&M skirt ($3.19) and *Purple boatneck tee from Target ($1.59). Because I am a dumdum who forgot to grab these for the picture.



For Averie:
*1. Target navy girls skirt | $3.99
*2. Target turquoise pajama pants | $3.19
3. The Children's Place jeans | $2.39
4. The Children's Place jeans | $2.39
5. Eddie Bauer green button-down | $2.39
*6. Target red girls skirt | $2.39
*7. Target pink girls skirt | $2.99
*8. Target gray girls jeans | $2.39
9. J.Crew Crewcuts girls dress | $2.39
*10. Target green girls coat | $3.19

* = Brand new with tags on!
(And yes, I buy bigger kids' clothes too, if I find good deals. My kids are growing and will fit in them someday!)

Grand Total for Everything, pre-tax: $73.76!



A Few Tips on Shopping Goodwill:


1. Go often!
I've had trips where I leave with a few or no items, and others where I was loaded down with great finds. It all depends on when you go and what is in stock, especially since there is new stuff coming in every day. Goodwill doesn't keep anything in their store for longer than three weeks, so every three weeks it's a completely new store! If you have access to more than one Goodwill, go to as many as possible. Every few weeks, I like to make a day out of just hitting multiple stores in the area.

2. Find out when the best deals are!
At the stores near me, certain tag colors are marked down 50% on certain days. (These are the pieces that are nearing the end of their three weeks in the store, and at the stores here, they get marked down on their last Sunday & Monday in the store.) I think this is a pretty standard Goodwill practice. Ask at the stores near you to find out if there are special discounts on certain days.

Also, the Goodwills near me get their shipments from Target on Tuesdays. Yes, that's right--Target's clearance merchandise that doesn't sell after a given amount of time is sent to Goodwill stores and sold even cheaper. Ask your Goodwill when stores in the area such as Target drop off their merchandise. Some of those items go quickly, so it pays to know when it's coming so you can get there early!

3. Take the time to go through everything.
Some finds, like a patterned top or sweater, will catch your eye right away. Others might be hiding, so take the time and go through piece by piece, looking at both the style itself and the brand. One of the coolest things I found was a brand new (WITH TAGS) J.Crew shift dress, for $5. It was hiding in with women's tops and may not have been found at all if I hadn't been browsing the whole rack. Sadly, it was an XS and I'm more like a XXS, so it did not make it home with me. (Total first world problem, I know.) When I went back a few days later, it was already gone. Somebody found the deal of a lifetime!

4. Grab anything/everything that strikes your fancy right away! Then try it all on.
Sometimes I'm amazed that certain items are still sitting on the racks at all. If you find something interesting, even if you're not sure, pick it up right away! You don't want someone else to grab it while you're wandering the store, thinking about it.

5. Some of the best deals are the fixer-upper pieces.
One of my now-favorite skirts, a navy blue cotton pencil skirt, started out as a frumpy ankle-length skirt...like, picture your middle-aged teachers in the 1990s. It fit beautifully in the waist, so I brought it home, took it in on the sides, and hemmed it. I've also found cheap pants that I turned into shorts. I'm really a pretty novice seamstress, but even those basic sewing skills open up a world of possibilities for pieces that would be perfect with a little tweaking. So even if something is a little longer or a little wider than you'd like (flared jeans, for example), those pieces are easy to transform into skinnier or more flattering pieces. Pay more attention to quality, brand, and condition of the item, and decide if a few quick alterations could make it more wearable.

What do you think of thrifting? Have you had any luck with Goodwill? What were your best finds?

love, elizabeth

Happy 5th Birthday, Averie!!!


Averie in 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, and 2014!


I cannot believe it's been 5 years since we first met this sweet girl in person. In some ways, those baby days don't seem that long ago, and in other ways, I can't imagine not knowing this little face. Everything before her seems like another life, or a story I read somewhere.

Actually, her own life has been sort of an interesting story in itself.

My mother tells me about when I was born, and she went to show me to her father. My grandfather's mother, Marie, had been a redhead, and she died when my grandpa and his brothers were just boys, so my grandfather always had a soft spot for girls with red hair, and my mother, his only daughter, was one of them. When he saw me, he told her I was "exactly what [he] wanted...a little girl with red hair and blue eyes, just like Mommy." (My hair later turned to a light shade of red/strawberry, and my eyes turned green, but that's besides the point.)

My mother and her parents were very close, and as a child I was very close to them as well. My parents even have the same wedding anniversary as my grandparents, who had a long and beautiful marriage. Both my mother's parents passed away when I was a girl, and I have missed them constantly ever since. I have always taken comfort in the fact that my grandpa, who succeeded my grandma in death, passed on their wedding anniversary. It seemed to signify to me everything I already believed: that they were together, happy, and continuing to exist in another world beyond this one. That date has always been very special to our family.

I can remember, right when Averie's head started to be visible to the doctors and nurses delivering, I asked what color her hair was, expecting blonde or brown. Rob's hair is brown, and my hair is naturally a light strawberry, so I wasn't expecting my mother's and great-grandmother's full-on bright red hair to show up in my kids. When they said it looked red, I was shocked. Sure enough, Averie Emma was born with a head of bright red hair. Of course she was. She was born with red hair and blue eyes, just like Great-Grandpa would have wanted.

Ready for the best part?


She was born on March 25, the same day my grandparents were married, the same day my parents were married, the same day my grandfather joined my grandma up in heaven. And when she was born on March 25, this day that reminds me so much of my grandparents, with red hair and blue eyes, my grandfather's favorite combination, it was just perfect. I have always known that my sweet Averie is known and loved by my grandparents in heaven as much as she is by us here on earth. She has made me feel connected to them again in new ways, although she had no control over any of it and probably doesn't yet understand it. She is special in a million different ways, and I know she will do important things some day.

Averie, you are the sweet girl I always dreamed of having. You have changed the way I view everything and everyone; you have made me a better woman in every sense of the word. You are such a great daughter, a caring older sister to your brother, and a wonderful friend to everyone because of your huge heart. I cannot imagine having a more wonderful daughter than you. Mommy loves you so, so much.

Happy birthday, Averie! I simply cannot wait to see what you do in life.

love, elizabeth

Mean Mommies



My sweet almost-5-year-old girl, Averie. She has a strong personality, like her mama, but she also has a big heart. (I’d like to think she gets that from me as well.) She considers everyone a friend—I have never heard her say a negative thing about any of her friends or classmates. Even though I know that some have not always been nice to her.

Despite your best mommy efforts, sometimes your kid just won’t get along with another. And that’s part of life, of course, but sometimes it crosses the line and people just start getting mean. And I’m not just talking about kids. I’m talking about the moms! This week, I had that unfortunate realization.

I was in a sorority in college. I lived with 40 women in a chapter house, and we didn't always get along. I get the politics of being a girl. But it takes on a whole new meaning when it's your preschool-age child, and when adult women are teaching their young girls that it is okay to be rude to those you don't like. It starts to feel like a very unfair fight, with adults leading by (bad) example.

I’ve talked to her teacher, who reassured me that my daughter's behavior isn't the problem. The other child has a history of being difficult with others, so as long as I know I’m teaching my daughter how to be kind to everyone, I can’t take it personally. I guess I’m just having a hard time accepting that some grown women don’t see anything wrong with singling out classmates their kid doesn’t like and basically just being a mean girl...and raising her daughter to be the same. Did I mention this is a Christian preschool?! Talk about expecting better from other parents.

This is her sleepy face, not her sad face. But still, doesn't it just kill you to see your kid feeling down?!

As for my family? We used this as an opportunity to talk to our daughter about showing kindness to others. When I asked Averie if she still wants to invite this girl to her upcoming birthday party, she said yes. And I have never been prouder of my sweet, caring girl—a girl who always wants to include everyone and make everyone feel like a friend, even when they haven’t treated her that way.

We will be inviting this other child to my daughter’s birthday party. We will be including her in anything that includes the rest of the class. We will treat her no differently than any other friend in her class. Because that’s the gracious thing to do. That’s the Christian thing to do.

We don’t always know what is going on in the lives of others to make them act the way they do. We certainly can’t control how they treat us. But we control how we respond. Sometimes an icky situation can point out something important. I think we’re on the right track. And I think my daughter is turning out to be pretty cool.

Your turn: Have you ever experienced a “mean girl” moment? Or just a difficult mom moment? How do you respond when people are choosing to not be nice?

love, elizabeth